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I would like to start this speech with a bit of good news. I will be mercifully brief. Now with that out of the way…
Congratulations on achieving this milestone in your life. It’s been a few years that felt like they were either crawling at a snail’s pace or rushing by faster than you could follow. And now at this point, I would like to give you some advice to keep with you.
First of all, let this be a day of joy. Whatever problems that are out in the world right now will still be there. You have accomplished something great and have sacrificed a lot for it. Take the day off and enjoy it. Be with your family and friends and don’t feel any guilt over it. You can worry about adulting tomorrow.
When you are out in the world, remember to set aside a day of joy once in a while. It can be tough when you are starting out and there will be times it seems overwhelming. Plan out a day of joy and appreciate where you are and share that with your loved ones.
When you search for work, do not scorn any opportunity that comes your way. Starting out in the working world can be difficult. Do not despair that the Perfect Job is not showing up. You might get offers that are nothing close to what you were looking for but the hiring manager saw something in you that you did not. Find out more.
When you interview, show up fifteen minutes early. Take the time to look professional and look them in the eyes when you answer their questions. And when it’s done, make sure you have their names and send them thank you notes. You might not get the job but that courtesy gets remembered.
When you work, be professional. Keep your ears open and be ready to learn. The phrases “I don’t know” and “I need help” are not ones to be ashamed of. Any company that thinks otherwise is one you should be wary of.
As you build up your skills, become valuable but not irreplaceable. Let your conduct speak louder than a social media post. Get to the point in life that when your boss hears you say “I’ll take care of it,” that’s the end of the conversation because he knows that you will.
As you get older, keep a close eye on your friends. If you are in your mid-twenties, you should be talking about long term career goals, buying a home, starting a family and investing in your retirement. If you are talking about past glories and the next party, expand your circle of friends a bit.
Finally, remember what is important. Care for your family and your friends. When you leave your job, you may get remembered for a short time. When your friends and family leave, you remember that forever. Cherish them and remind them how much they mean to you. Congratulations again and best wishes for your continued success.
